So.... since y'all were with me for the good, exciting, fun part of the possibility of what I thought would be a dream job, I felt it only fair to share the not-so-fun part with you as well.
I haven't posted about this, because I thought I was over-reacting, being paranoid, etc. But Monday when I had the second interview with the store manager (a female about my age) I got a weird vibe from her. For one thing, pretty much everything she told me about the job was the opposite of what the receiving manager who had interviewed me had told me.
For instance:
*The job is "seasonal" as in only until the beginning of September. MAYBE longer, they weren't sure at this time. I was not told that at the first interview. At the first interview I was told it was part-time...which I was fine with. But permanent part-time. Not 5 weeks worth.
*I would be required to move furniture. Or in the words of the female manager: "Everyone here does everything." Really? Because the other manager told me I would NEVER have to move furniture. That's what the stockroom guys do. That's why they're stockroom guys.
Those are just a couple of examples.
The female manager also commented several times about how "some people think this is the job for them and once they start they discover it isn't"......how "we don't dress-up at this store like the do at the showroom store". Ummmmm...ok....yes, I had on a solid color black dress, snakeskin gladiator sandals and minimal make-up...which I felt was appropriate attire for a second interview for a part-time position in a catalog outlet store. What did she expect? Sweats and a t-shirt?
The manager referred to my application several times and commented on my many years at the District Attorney's office. What had I done since then, etc. I answered honestly about my work for the lab doing genetic testing and my temp work as a legal secretary. I got the impression from this woman that she thought I was too good to work there. I don't know if that makes sense or not. Yes, I realized I was overqualifed. But I was looking forward to starting anew....at the bottom.....in an industry that I have such an interest in and with the hope that it might lead to something else. While at the same time simply doing a job that wouldn't be stressful, and would put me in an atmosphere with beautiful home furnishings (which we all know I adore).
It was not to be. While the manager was very pleasant and chatty during our 30 minutes together, I had a feeling that she wouldn't be hiring me. She did have me complete the form giving the company permission to do a background check (for a part-time job? Seriously?) and told me I would hear from them by Thursday.
I did hear from them on Thursday.
I received a letter in the mail Thursday (from the manager) telling me they could not offer me a position at this time.
In order for me to receive a letter from her on Thursday....when I'd only interviewed on Monday...she would have had to mail it on...what? Tuesday?
Of course I can't finish this post without noting that the manager was around my age.....no make-up, twill pants, solid polo shirt and white tennis shoes. Non-discript haircut.
The graphic below sums up the interview from my point of view.
Now....on to bigger and better things!

LMAO!!!! That's a great picture to go with this post and you are spot on, Pissy!
ReplyDeleteOkay, it won't make you feel better, but you're right about what happened to you. Absolutely.
Since moving here five years ago, this is what has happened to me time and again. I was actually told by one woman that my resume was "very high powered; maybe a bit too high powered for this area," and then suggested that I might want to take stuff out of it.
Are you kidding me? Dumb down my resume???
We're being caught in some sort of reverse discrimination...but I'm like you...I figure if they think like that at the hiring process, it could only go down hill once I was an employee.
Still, it's frustrating when all you want to do is go in some place you like, do solid work, and make a difference. I send hugs!
Holly: Hee hee! I thought the picture was perfect myself. ;-)
ReplyDeleteIt actually DOES make me feel better to know that you think I'm right about what happened. I was afraid that maybe I was making excuses for myself.
Ah....I can see how that would happen...the "dumbing down" of the resume suggestion. So silly!
Thank you for always being so supportive and knowing exactly what to say to make me feel better.
Hugs back! :)
:( You TOTALLY had her pegged from the get. I thought you were being paranoid - but you had it dead on. She wrote that letter the minute you left- surprised she didn't ask you to drop it in the mail on your way out. I hate stupid people that feel threatened by others. If you HAD gotten it, she would have likely tried to haze you and shit. Who needs that? Loser. Love the pic - you're TOTALLY gelato!
ReplyDeletefbi: *sigh* yes, I did. After having lunch with you I thought maybe I was being paranoid too. I should know by now to listen to my instincts.
ReplyDeleteI think she wrote the letter immediately too. Probably waited a day to mail it so as not to be TOO obvious. LOL
It's all for the best. And it was a good learning experience for me if nothing else.
p.s. I am PROUD to be gelato! ;-)
Well that suckssssssssss
ReplyDeleteDon't let it getcha down. There will be other stuff!
you were too good for them, the store and that dippy bitch..you would have been miserable working with her..good riddance..
ReplyDeletethat woman was a WEINER!!! better luck next time (-:
ReplyDeleteI know it doesn't help much but you wouldn't want to be working with a cow like that. Lucky escape, I say.
ReplyDeleteSage: I'm not going to let it get me down. Thanks! :)
ReplyDeletejacque sue: I probably would have been miserable working with her. It's for the best.
Mary: Yeah, she was! LOL Thanks!
Deep Kick Girl: No, it DOES help! you're right...Thanks! :)
Dear Gelato:
ReplyDeleteMs. Manager clearly felt inferior to you.
An accurate account on her part. :)
(My first post, but a fan of your blog. :))
Sorry to hear about the job. I know how much you were looking forward to it.
ReplyDeleteAs somebody else said- you wouldn't have wanted to end up working with someone like that, anyway. A better offer will come along, Pissy.
ReplyDeleteCooking Shari: Awwww....thank you! and thanks for leaving a comment and being a fan. :)
ReplyDeletejag: Thank you....I really was....but I have to look at it as being for the best.
Whitenoise: You're right on both counts. Thanks! :)
:) Glad you have the right attitude!!
ReplyDeleteShe's just a jealous biatch of all your fabulousness!!!!
ReplyDeleteLove the pic!!! LMFAO!!
Hell Pissy! That above comment was from me...didn't know my little one had logged in! LOL
ReplyDeletefbi: Thanks! I think it's the only way to go! :)
ReplyDeleteDejoni: HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! LOVE IT!
p.s. I'm thinking of changing my blogger name to "Gelato". What do you think? ;-)
That woman was completely intimidated by you. She couldn't stomach working around knowing how threatened your demeanor, experience, and expertise would drown out her mumblings.
ReplyDeletePerhaps someone else will notice her mistake and correct it. You could sell a cardboard box as a decorator's piece, and we all know it.
So not: I love how you always call 'em like you see 'em. Thanks! :)
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